Divorce is never an easy process, especially when children are involved. The process extends far beyond the courtroom, and building a healthy co-parenting relationship is not just a personal goal for Ohio parents. It is also a goal that the law actively encourages. 

Whether your case was resolved through negotiation or litigation, there are some practical tips that can help you protect the well-being of your children and stay on the right side of Ohio law. 

1. Understand Ohio’s Shared Parenting Framework

Ohio law strongly encourages arrangements that keep both parents actively involved in their child’s life. The Ohio Revised Code § 3109.04 allows courts to approve a shared parenting plan, also known as joint custody, which divides parental rights and responsibilities between the two parents. Before co-parenting effectively, it is essential to understand what the court-approved plan entails.

Read your parenting plan carefully and understand who has decision-making authority regarding education, healthcare, and religious upbringing. Even when there are disagreements, respect these boundaries.

2. Put Your Children’s Best Interests First – Always

Ohio courts evaluate each custody decision based on the “best interests of the child”. Under ORC § 3109.04(F)(1), judges consider factors such as the child’s relationship with each parent, their adaptation to school and society, and the willingness of each parent to promote the other’s interaction with the child.

That last factor is of great importance. Courts look favorably on parents who actively support their child’s relationship with the other parent. Parents who interfere with that relationship risk losing support in future modification proceedings.

3. Follow Your Parenting Time Schedule – Consistently

Ohio Revised Code § 3109.051 governs parenting time rights and outlines what courts take into account when scheduling time sharing. Consistent adherence to this schedule provides your child with the stability they need and shows the court that you are a responsible co-parent.

If you need to make any changes to the schedule, please contact the other parent in advance by writing.

4. Keep Communication Child-Focused and Respectful

Healthy co-parenting does not require friendship – it requires professionalism. Avoid using your child as a messenger or letting them witness heated exchanges. Instead, communicate directly with your co-parent via email, text, or a parenting communication app.

If communication breaks down consistently between parents, the Ohio courts offer mediation as an alternative to going to court. Mediation is a faster and less expensive process that often leads to more effective agreements that both parents can live with.

5. Never Relocate Without Court Approval

Ohio has strict rules for relocations. If you are planning to move, even within the state, in a way that will significantly affect parenting time, you are required under ORC § 3109.051(G) to provide written notice to both the other parent and the court. Moving without following the proper procedures can have serious legal consequences, including the reversal of custody.

6. Modify Orders Through the Court — Not Through Informal Agreements

Life changes can be challenging, especially when it comes to adjusting co-parenting arrangements. Whether it’s a new job, a new partner, or school, these changes can cause stress and uncertainty. When you and your ex-partner decide to make informal changes to your parenting arrangement, it might seem like an easier option than going back to court. However, informal agreements are not legally binding, so if the arrangement later breaks down, you will have no legal protection.

Compassionate Legal Help for Co-Parenting Challenges

At Axelrod & Hellier, LLP we understand the challenges of transitioning from a single-family household to two separate homes. We are here to provide you with expert legal guidance and compassionate support as you navigate this important change in your life. Our goal is to help you maintain your peace of mind during this transition, ensuring that you have the legal support you need to make informed decisions and protect your interests.

Contact us for a free consultation to discuss your options and let us provide the support you need.